How to Coordinate, Personalize, and Perfect the Bridesmaid & Groomsmen Attire

Are you looking to nail down the perfect, ‘big day’ look for your wedding party? If so, were here to help you do just that! While we understand that it can be super tricky and confusing to match bridesmaids and groomsmen, it is such an essential part of wedding planning. Especially, as they will be by your side all day long, you want to make sure their outfits coordinate accordingly.

Now, get ready because we have all the best tips and tricks to help coordinate your wedding party, and what not to forget when choosing the small details that make a big difference.

1. Establish the Theme and Color Palette

Before diving into specific attire choices, it’s crucial to establish the theme and color palette of your wedding. The theme will guide your decisions on formality and style, while the color palette will dictate the colors used in the attire. For instance, a formal black-tie wedding might call for classic black tuxedos and elegant gowns, while a beach wedding could feature lighter fabrics and pastel colors. For your color palette, we often recommend choosing 3-5 colors that you and your partner will love and go well together.

Tip: Consider your venue and the season when choosing colors and styles. Light, breathable fabrics work well for summer, while rich, heavier materials are better suited for winter.

2. Coordinate with the Wedding Dress

Now that you have identified some of your favorite colors for the wedding, it’s time to finalize 1-2 primary colors. These will be the main colors featured throughout your ceremony and will be used for your bridesmaids’ and groomsmen’s attire. Make sure to visualize how these primary colors will look in suits or bridesmaid dresses and ensure you truly love them.

The bridesmaid and groomsmen’s attire should complement, not compete with, the bride’s dress. If the bride’s gown is elaborate, opt for simpler, elegant dresses and suits for the wedding party. On the other hand, if the bride’s dress is understated, you have more flexibility to choose bold colors and designs for the attendants.

Tip: Take a fabric sample or swatch from the bride’s dress when shopping for bridesmaid and groomsmen attire to ensure color and fabric consistency.

3. Deciding On Your Bridesmaids’ Dresses

When selecting bridesmaid dresses, the bride has the option to either choose a specific dress style for all the attendants or decide on a color or color palette and allow the bridesmaids to select their own dresses within those parameters. If the bride chooses the style, it ensures a uniform look but may limit individual preferences.

By setting a color scheme, the bride can offer the bridesmaids the freedom to pick dresses that suit their personal style while still fitting within the cohesive color theme. This approach can create a harmonious yet individualized appearance for the wedding party.

4. Coordinating Groomsmen Suits with Bridesmaid Dresses

Coordinating groomsmen suits with bridesmaids’ dresses is generally straightforward, as most groomsmen suits come in neutral tones like black, navy blue, and gray. These colors are easy to match with various bridesmaid dress colors, and you can even choose ties that precisely match the bridesmaid dresses. If you’re looking for something more unique, groomsmen suits are available in a range of other colors, such as cream, white, light blue, and beige, though these may require more effort to coordinate.

The most common color for groomsmen suits is black, as it is a timeless and versatile option, particularly popular in fall and winter weddings. Their classic aesthetic makes them suitable for a wide range of wedding styles, from formal to semi-formal. Black suits pair effortlessly with virtually any bridesmaid dress color, enhancing their ability to complement both vibrant and subdued hues. This versatility is especially useful when dealing with darker or deeper tones, which can create a sophisticated and cohesive look.

Additionally, black suits are practical and enduring, ensuring that groomsmen look sharp and polished throughout the event. Their adaptability to various color schemes and wedding themes makes them a reliable choice for a harmonious and elegant wedding party.

5. Choose Attire That Flatters Different Body Types

Bridesmaids and groomsmen come in various shapes and sizes, and their attire should be chosen to flatter each individual. For bridesmaids, consider offering options like different dress styles in the same color to accommodate different body types and personal preferences. For groomsmen, ensure the suits are tailored to fit well, as a well-fitting suit will look better on everyone. Even though it’s the bride and groom’s big day, you want the important people in your life to feel confident in what they are wearing as well.

Tip: Schedule fittings for each attendant to make sure that adjustments can be made before the wedding day.

6. Plan for Accessories and Details

Accessories and personalization add a unique touch and makes the wedding party feel special, and carefully chosen accessories play a crucial role in achieving this. For bridesmaids, consider coordinating accessories such as jewelry or shoes to create a cohesive look that complements their dresses and the overall wedding theme.

Personalized touches, like matching jewelry or a specific makeup look, can enhance this effect. For groomsmen, matching ties, cufflinks, or pocket squares can unify their attire, and can even be personalized to add a subtle, individual touch. It’s also important to ensure that any special traditions or cultural elements are reflected in these accessories. Encourage the wedding party to incorporate elements that reflect their personal style within the overall attire, such as a hint of their favorite color or a meaningful accessory, to make the event feel even more personalized and memorable.

7. Communicate Clearly and Early

Clear communication is essential in coordinating attire. Provide your wedding party with detailed guidelines and timelines for purchasing or renting attire. This should include information on where to buy or rent the outfits, deadlines for fittings, and any costs involved.

Tip: Create a simple guide or checklist for the wedding party that includes everything they need to know about their attire. This ensures everyone is on the same page and reduces the chance of last-minute issues.

8. Consider Comfort and Practicality

Even though aesthetics are significant enough, comfort and practicality shouldn’t be disregarded. The wedding party will be on their feet for much of the day, so ensure that the attire is comfortable and that shoes are practical. For outdoor weddings, consider the terrain and choose appropriate footwear.

Tip: Allow for some flexibility in the choice of attire, such as adding a pair of comfortable shoes or a second, more casual option for later in the evening.

9. Handle Last-Minute Adjustments

Even with careful planning, last-minute adjustments are often necessary. Set aside time in the weeks leading up to the wedding for final fittings and any last-minute tweaks. Ensure that any issues with fit or style are resolved promptly to avoid stress on the wedding day.

Tip: Have a small emergency kit on hand for the wedding day, including items like needle and thread, stain remover, and extra accessories.

Conclusion

Coordinating, personalizing, and perfecting bridesmaid and groomsmen attire requires attention to detail and thoughtful planning. By establishing a clear theme, coordinating with the bride’s dress, and personalizing the attire, you can create a cohesive and stylish look for your wedding party. Communication, comfort, and practicality are key to ensuring that everyone looks their best and feels comfortable on the big day. With these tips, you’ll be well on your way to achieving a perfectly dressed wedding party that complements your special day beautifully.

With the help of our incredible team here at Springfield Country Club, your dream wedding can become a reality. We are honored to participate in your adventure and are committed to seeing it through to the end. Feel free to contact us today to discover everything we have to offer!